Q: Can a deacon get married? –Nicole
A: This is a simple-sounding question, with an answer that is more involved than one might think!
As was seen in “What Can (and Can’t) a Deacon Do?” we have to bear in mind that deacons are ordained clerics. As such, they are bound to observe perfect and perpetual continence—in other words, they must live celibate, chaste lives for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven (c. 277.1). It is only logical, therefore, that a man who has received the sacrament of Holy Orders cannot validly marry (c. 1087).
All that being said, however, we need to make a distinction between transitional deacons, who are seminarians studying to become priests; and permanent deacons. Continue reading