Is My Confession Valid, If the Priest Changes the Words of Absolution?

Posted on May 3, 2018 by Cathy Caridi

Q: Could you please go over the laws and minimum requirements for the valid celebration of the sacrament of reconciliation.  I fear that a lot of Catholics go to confession and hear all kinds of things in place of the standard prayer of absolution.  Could you please tell us what the minimum requirements are?  And whether it is valid if the priest says, “your sins are forgiven,” and nothing more, or “I absolve you in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit,” and nothing more, or “Jesus absolves you of your sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,” or, mumbles his words or silently prays them so that the penitent does not even hear them?

Must the word “absolve” be used, or can the word “forgive” be substituted?

Is the sacrament valid if it takes place in the church parking lot or another public place? For example, the priest is walking out to his car (you’re running late to confession) and you catch him in the parking lot before he leaves and ask him to hear your confession and he does, is it valid?  Are you forgiven?  If the priest hears your confession in his office?  Or a penitent sees a Catholic priest in an airport and asks him? –Mike Continue reading →

Posted in Confession, Parish Life, Sacraments | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments Off on Is My Confession Valid, If the Priest Changes the Words of Absolution?

Who Decides What Constitutes a Valid Sacrament?

Posted on April 19, 2018 by Cathy Caridi

Q:  Canon law makes marriage illicit, not invalid.  In your article “Are SSPX Sacraments Valid,” you quoted Canon 1108.1 that if the marriage isn’t celebrated in front of the bishop, pastor, or his designee, then “the marriage is invalid.”

But Canon Law, and even the keys of Peter, has no power to determine that.

…Illicitness (sic) is fully in the power of Canon Law to determine…. But (in)validity…is in the Power of God the Holy Spirit, and so invalidity occurs purely in the Order of Grace, and Canon Law can’t touch, change, affect, or determine that in any way.

Isn’t it true that the only difference between sacramental and non-sacramental marriage is the presence (or absence) of the Holy Spirit in the 2 spouses?  Therefore… for a marriage to be invalid, there would have to be an absence of Sanctifying Grace, i.e. Mortal Sin.  So this sacrament is effected (to be) valid or invalid primarily in the Order of Grace, not in the order of Canon Law.

Marriage tribunals, operating under Canon Law can only attempt to “guess at it,” after the fact; but ultimately it is God who decides whether there’s a real marriage there.  Canon 1108.1 should’ve said (if it were to be more accurate), “the marriage is SUBJECT TO possible invalidity.” –David, Theology summa cum laude, X College Continue reading →

Posted in Marriage, Sacraments, The Pope | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Who Decides What Constitutes a Valid Sacrament?

Becoming (Or at Least Marrying) an Eastern Catholic

Posted on April 5, 2018 by Cathy Caridi

Q1:  I find the topic of Eastern Catholic Churches very interesting. So I was wondering, is it possible for a Roman Catholic to become, say, Greek Catholic or Coptic Catholic, and if so, how does that work? –Angelo

Q2:  My girlfriend is Russian and converted to Catholicism last summer.  First question: while converted in a Latin Parish, she is still a Russian Catholic canonically, correct?
Second: We want to get married. Since I am Latin, can my Latin priest marry us?  Does she “automatically” switch Rites when marrying me, or does she remain Russian?  Can she and I marry in the Russian Rite even though I’m Latin? –Matthew Continue reading →

Posted in Canonical Issues Involving Non-Catholics, Marriage, Other Canonical Questions, Sacraments | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Becoming (Or at Least Marrying) an Eastern Catholic

Can a Priest Refuse to Hear Your Confession if He Knows You?

Posted on March 22, 2018 by Cathy Caridi

Q1:  I’d like to know if a priest can hear the confession of a Catholic who is married, but not in the Catholic Church?  If not, why not? –Joseph

Q2:  I am an active parish volunteer at my local parish. We recently received a new pastor, and he is very inexperienced…. When I recently went to Confession, he must have recognized my voice, asked me a few questions to ascertain my identity, and turned me away. He said because I volunteer for the parish, he won’t hear my confession.

There are only two priests at our parish and we are in a small town without a lot of other parishes around. It is unpredictable which priest will hear confessions on any given Saturday and if he won’t hear my Confession, I may go weeks without absolution. I have been in the habit of not going more than two weeks or so.

Given Canon 986.1, is it permissible for my pastor to refuse to hear my Confession? –Lisa Continue reading →

Posted in Confession, Parish Life, Sacraments | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Can a Priest Refuse to Hear Your Confession if He Knows You?

Why Can’t These Priests Ever Celebrate a Valid Catholic Wedding?

Posted on March 8, 2018 by Cathy Caridi

Q1: Can a laicized Catholic priest ever validly marry a Catholic couple? —Courtney

Q2: My best friend is going to marry a divorced Catholic man, and she asked me to be a bridesmaid… her pastor said that her fiancé would have to obtain an annulment of his first marriage before they could marry in the Church, but then she found this group of Catholic priests who told her it wasn’t necessary.  They said they will marry you without it, in a Catholic ceremony in a hotel or some other place that’s not a church…  This can’t be right, can it?  My friend is insisting that it will be a real Catholic wedding by a priest, but something must be wrong here.  What do you think? –Emma Continue reading →

Posted in Holy Orders, Marriage, Sacraments | Tagged , , , , | Comments Off on Why Can’t These Priests Ever Celebrate a Valid Catholic Wedding?